I’ve been loving a lot of things lately, but not writing about or sharing any of them.
One of my goals for this year is to focus on noticing things- websites I discover, articles I read, new foods I eat, trends in the world and themes in my life. I typically notice these things and then deem them unimportant to carrying out my day-to-day life. But of course, they are important and when I take the time to consider them and give them weight, my life feels richer and deeper and more appreciated. Hopefully this blog can help me continue to work towards my goal.
Let’s start small. Here are a few things I’ve read recently that I loved.
30 Most Disappointing Under 30
As someone who loathes ’30 under 30′ lists, mostly for their elitism and glorification of youth, this list felt perfect to me. I’m all for the celebration of real human experiences and humor as a way for us to cope with life. Plus, the entry for Bess Kalb (below), is providing motivation for me to keep writing. I can’t end up like Bess!
Bess Kalb, twenty-nine
Kalb started a screenplay, talked about it to at least thirty friends and family members and two Uber drivers, and then never finished it.
Illustrated Guide to Fighting Harassment
I can’t seem to figure out how I stumbled upon this link (maybe Cup of Jo?) but I’m so glad I did. The world feels especially scary these days and I take comfort in knowing I have this information in my arsenal. I hope it will help me take action without hesitating if I find myself witnessing harassment.
I was also talking to my boyfriend recently about what to do when someone you know (family, friend, acquaintance, etc.) says something offensive. It’s happened a few times recently and I hate to admit I haven’t spoken up. I end up feeling terrible after and think of all the things I could have said but didn’t in the moment because I was shocked and frozen with anxiety. We came up with a few phrases that aim to point out that the comment isn’t okay with us, without scolding or creating a confrontation with the person.
Here’s our list: “What do you mean by that?, “Don’t you think that’s offensive?”, and “Do you think that’s appropriate?”
Hopefully these get you thinking or will be helpful if you find yourself in a similar situation.
And for something a bit lighter… Oh, St. Ives face wash… I think it’s safe to say we’ve all been there. (via Bird)



